Dashboard and booking notifications are broken!

Hi, my dashboard doesn't update when I'm booked for something until much later. I accidentally found out I was booked while checking something else out. I received the email notifications and the "client is waiting " notifications the day after, and again! today, 2 days later after the project has been completed, passed the internal process, and is still stuck in my dashboard like it's new. In my completed projects list it says I accepted that project 19 hours later!!! I have speedys that come in already completed for hours by other pros, and they are stuck in my dashboard as "available projects" for days until I request them to be removed. This is causing big problems on my end, affecting my stats and income, and I'm always wondering what to trust, if a project is waiting for my response...

Please, please, please can this be addressed?

Thanks so much